Maybe look at tapping/EFT to get those thoughts unstuck from inside you. Sounds like you are in a freeze state, you want them to move on. Brad Yates on you tube is good, you just follow along and you find out the real reason you are obsessing about him being with 17 yr olds, while you are nearing 40 etc there may be other issues to deal with and tapping bubbles them to the surface!!
SBMay 9, 2025
Another thing that may help is to understand the circumstances of the previous actions of the husband. He was a teenager with raging hormones, it was popular to compete with other boys to conquer the most girls, and teen boys thrived on peer recognition and bragging rights. Sleeping around was more of a contest than anything - and involved no feelings of love, respect or commitment. Eventually teens mature, develop some self respect, become more responsible, and are able to move on to love, marriage and family. The teenaged romps are far past, long forgotten, and usually an embarrassment. Also, it may be that the guy got his lustful phase out of the way in the past, resolved all his curiosities about the opposinte sex, learned some hard lessons, and won't be tempted to do it again in the future - especially in a marriage - which is a good thing!
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SarahMay 9, 2025
Maybe look at tapping/EFT to get those thoughts unstuck from inside you. Sounds like you are in a freeze state, you want them to move on. Brad Yates on you tube is good, you just follow along and you find out the real reason you are obsessing about him being with 17 yr olds, while you are nearing 40 etc there may be other issues to deal with and tapping bubbles them to the surface!!
SBMay 9, 2025
Another thing that may help is to understand the circumstances of the previous actions of the husband. He was a teenager with raging hormones, it was popular to compete with other boys to conquer the most girls, and teen boys thrived on peer recognition and bragging rights. Sleeping around was more of a contest than anything - and involved no feelings of love, respect or commitment. Eventually teens mature, develop some self respect, become more responsible, and are able to move on to love, marriage and family. The teenaged romps are far past, long forgotten, and usually an embarrassment. Also, it may be that the guy got his lustful phase out of the way in the past, resolved all his curiosities about the opposinte sex, learned some hard lessons, and won't be tempted to do it again in the future - especially in a marriage - which is a good thing!
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