Our brain’s primary function is survival. Our brains use fear to warn us of danger and are always looking for something wrong. So, when something reminds the brain of traumatic experiences, it is “triggered” to bring up fear. We must be careful not to let this sabotage our relationships.
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How to Safeguard Your Heart While Searching for Eternal Love
The idea of risking pain to find love is powerful, and it is worth the risk. But are some risks not worth taking? Jesus said, “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast ye your pearls before swine..." I suggest you share your priceless pearls of emotional and physical intimacy wisely.
Is Stonewalling Hurting Your Relationship? Here’s How to Fix It
When one party refuses to engage in dialogue, shutting down discussions and withholding responses, they are using a tactic called stonewalling. While it may seem like a protective move or a temporary escape from conflict, stonewalling is far more dangerous than it appears.
Do Boundaries Help or Hinder Relationships?
Today, many see “boundaries” as essential to a healthy relationship and even virtuous. An old cliché teaches that “high fences make good neighbors.” Fair enough. But do you want a neighbor or an intimate partner?
Tools for Putting Out and Preventing Fires in Your Relationship
Just as you would take steps to prevent fires from starting in your home, such as keeping flammable materials away from heat sources and replacing faulty equipment or appliances, you would be wise to proactively manage your relationship to prevent conflicts.
Your Single Adult Dating Journey: Where to Begin?
Whatever the reasons, it remains true that many mid-singles who would like to date and develop relationships are rarely if ever dating. Many have much to offer but feel unnoticed by people they might like to date.
Your Hardest Family Question: What are the rules about dating later in life?
My husband, to whom I am sealed, passed away a little over a year ago and I’m starting to date again for a “time” partner. I don’t know the rules anymore, especially since the last time I dated was over forty years ago. Is it okay to invite a man to do things with me or would that be perceived as pushy? If not, where do I draw the line?