I have been married for 25 years. It's been a rocky journey but we have always been a team and strong. He served in the Navy but was discharged with posttraumatic stress disorder. His mental illness, which included several serious suicide attempts, had a massive impact on us all. In a recent argument, I had what I can only describe as a mental breakdown. He is now blaming me for ending the marriage. I'm clueless as to what to do.