My husband left, saying he was unhappy. He said he wants me to move on because he no longer loves me. He came back and for several months told me he loved me, but then he said he didn't. What if I have already let him know I want to reconnect, but he says he doesn’t want to and that it’s over for him?
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I'm having a hard time knowing what to think and how to react. Yesterday I saw on the TV that my husband had been watching a sleazy and despicable show. It surprised me because he tells me he doesn't like filth and thinks it's cheap to add unnecessary nudity (which to me, it's never necessary), yet he's watching a show that is basically dressed up porn. I'm confused about who he says he is and what entertainment he chooses.
I tried to tell you what it would be to be a mother, but one generation’s language will always fail in trying to explain the enormity and nuance of their experience, so there are some things you have to learn that we cannot say. It is not that we will not say, but cannot. We cannot take you where we have been. You must come and learn for yourself on a trail you have never blazed before.
To raise the bar on the intimate relationship in our marriages, couples need to know what healthy sexual relationships are if they want to be able to create a “sextraordinary marriage.” In part 2 of this article you will find characteristics 11-20 that help determine what defines healthy and unhealthy sexuality.
I’m separated from my wife because I had an affair, but we are trying to work on our marriage. Our 25th wedding anniversary is coming up soon and I want to do something to commemorate the occasion, but things are pretty tense right now. We don’t talk about our relationship because she says that she gets too angry. I don’t want to make things worse by making a big deal about our anniversary or by doing nothing at all. Do you have any ideas on how I can handle this?
To raise the bar on the intimate relationship in our marriages, couples need to know what healthy sexual relationships are if they want to be able to create a “sextraordinary marriage.” In part 1 and part 2 of this article you will find 20 characteristics that help determine what defines healthy and unhealthy sexuality. This is part 1.
"I experienced horrible verbal and a little physical abuse from my husband whom I divorced 30 years ago. I haven't been able to let myself truly love again since...I know God loves me, but, here I am alone."