I really love the advice given here about being clear. I also love the statement that if the grandma is unwilling to work with you then she will "miss out." You have nothing to feel guilty about when she is disappointed or upset. She is making choices that bring consequences. My guess is that if you stay strong and clear in your communications with her, she will learn she has to cooperate if she wants to see her grandchildren.
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