In this deeply honest conversation, betrayal coach Katie Davis shares her personal journey through pornography betrayal in her marriage—from the shock of discovery to the exhausting attempt to “fix” everything. What happens when you realize you can’t heal it for him? Katie opens up about the moment everything shifted, and how surrendering control and turning to Jesus Christ became the beginning of real healing. Betrayal is more common than we think, and Katie offers a new perspective—one that moves away from fear and shame and toward personal healing, clarity, and hope. If you’re navigating betrayal, this episode is a powerful reminder that you are not alone—and that through Christ, even what feels completely broken can be made whole.
May 20, 2026
May 20, 2026
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As difficult as addiction and betrayal are, recovery is always possible through the cleansing and healing power of the atonement of Jesus Christ !
SteveMarch 21, 2026
As a former therapist to sexual offenders in prison, I'm glad this podcast helps spouses who survive betrayal trauma recognize that p*rn*graphy has become a coping mechanism for emotional distress and is not the spouse's fault. However, it is important to understand that the viewer objectifies and sexualizes the people in those images. That brings arousal and physical release which activates the "feel good" chemicals of dopamine, epinephrine, and oxytocin. It is essential that the viewer find other coping strategies that will help them develop emotional resilience and strengthen the emotional foundation of their relationships.