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I had the blessing of growing up with three remarkable grandparents. But one grandparent died when I was a baby. I yearned to know her.

A Blessed Heritage

I was named after Grandpa Harold E. Wallace. He was a prominent man in the community. Wherever we went, people knew him and respected him. But what mattered to a little boy was that he took me, Alan, and Beth out for “malts.” Going out for a “malt” with Grandpa meant a major shopping expedition. Later, as I entered my teen years, he taught me to care for his yard. He took inordinate pride in a job well done.

Grandma Wallace was gentle and gracious. She and Grandpa would invite me for sleepovers at their house. Clean white sheets. An uncrowded house. Breakfasts to remember. It was heaven! I never heard Grandma say an unkind thing. In some ways Grandma is a real and continuing presence in my life; my dear wife, Nancy, exemplifies so many of the same qualities of gentleness, graciousness, and thoughtfulness that characterized Grandma Wallace.

Grandpa Goddard invested his life in church service; he was either a bishop or a stake president for 26 years. I was blessed to hear him recite clever poems and to go home teaching with him. I have inherited some of his books and many of his interests. People expected good things of me because I was his grandson.

Empty Places

But I never knew Grandma Verna Lisle Wright Goddard. She died when I was a baby only 16 months old. As I grew up, I knew her primarily by the dated 8 x 10 photo of her that never moved from the mantle of the family home. I don’t remember hearing stories about her life and heart. I would live more than 50 years before I came to know Grandma Verna.

Grandpa Goddard lived almost 17 years without his beloved companion. How he must have missed the woman with whom he shared his life and for whom he wrote loving verse!

We all have empty places that yearn to be filled. One day when I was sorting through my dad’s papers with Mom, I asked about Grandma Goddard. “Oh! How she loved you,” Mom said. “You were her first grandson. She was so proud of you! She loved to hold you and kiss you!”

I was speechless! No one had ever said anything about me with Grandma Goddard. I did not know that I even showed up on the radar screen of her life. I felt like I had made a new best friend when Mom told me that I mattered to her.

Still I wanted more. I hungered to have her be an active part of my life. I wanted to know my Grandma. I wanted to feel her love and learn from her wisdom.

Treasures Disguised as Junk

I asked Aunt Ruth about Grandma. She gave me a box of Grandma’s papers. Newspaper clippings. Old photo negatives. It was, on the whole, a disorderly mess of dusty, unrelated fragments. But there was a scrapbook. The dedication penned in that scrapbook taught me much about Grandmother’s commitments and devotion:

To my children, I lovingly dedicate my book.
They make my life worth living.
They fill my cup of joy to overflowing.
They are my jewels, loaned to me by a loving Father.
For them I would be strong and brave and true.

The book was filled with pictures of her family and her testimony of the Gospel. It was a treasure trove to me. Yet there was more.

Some of life’s greatest treasures are disguised as ordinary fragments of mortal business. The box of scraps yielded cherished love notes from Grandpa to her: “To the Dearest Wife and Mother in the world.” “To Verna, More and more I love you, Percy.” “The darlingest in the whole world-my Verna.” 

In the box there were also pictures of family outings with my father as a boy. And a pile of carbon copies of letters Grandma wrote to her boys while they were away in World War II. They beckoned me to enter her world.

The letters tell of ordinary events. Church meetings. Weather. Holidays. Scrubbing coal-dust-besotted walls. And they express love, hope, and testimony. As I studied them, I felt that I was a part of their lives. I may not intrude on their doings, but I may quietly be there with them. I take an easy chair in the corner of their lives and live every letter. Unlike Grandma I hated for the war to end. Sure, I would be glad for my Father and uncle to come home from the war—but I did not want the letters to end.

Coming Home

But the war did end. The boys came home. They married. In time I was born. I was hardly a year old when Grandma began her battle with cancer. I suppose that my encounter with grandma was much like that described by Elder Maxwell: “Then we brush against the veil, as goodbyes and greetings are said almost within earshot of each other.” She was leaving the world just as I arrived.

As I read of her love for her children, I came to know grandma Verna Goddard’s heart. I imagine her voice speak to my soul. I hear her whisper in my ear as she snuggles me on her shoulder: “Oh, little one, I love you! May God be with you, my beloved Grandson.” I will never forget that new memory.

Grandma was a counselor in the General Young Women presidency of the Church and a popular speaker. I read her notes for talks. I studied the articles she wrote. I yearned to hear her voice. So, I asked if I might follow her on a speaking assignment. The Spirit whispered that I might follow—if I was very still.

So, in my mind, I followed her. I sat in the foyer outside the chapel. I heard her voice as she testified to a group of Young Women in Logan. “I know God. He is good! He loves you! Love Him. Follow Him. Obey Him.” Her vitality blessed the young women in the gathering, and it warmed my soul. The Young Women in the room sat enthralled. I sat in the hall and wept with joy.

I got to hear and know my Grandma Goddard.

I am thankful for a heritage that now includes lessons and love from all four grandparents. I am comforted to know that—despite passing through the veil—their ministering is not finished—rather it has been refined. They now bless their descendants from the other side of the veil with their enlarged wisdom and greater love. It is a blessing to have them be a part of our lives. Just as Elisha opened the eyes of his panicked and youthful assistant so that he could see that “the mountain was full of horses and chariots of fire round about Elisha” (2 Kings 6:17), so a box of scraps has opened my eyes to the convoy of loved ones who guard our voyage through mortality.

I offer heartfelt thanks to my Grandparents. I love you, Grandpa Wallace, Grandma Wallace, Grandpa Goddard, and, finally, Grandma Verna Lisle Wright Goddard.