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When Trouble Comes Knocking
by Marjorie Hasler
We had prayed, counseled, and argued with our daughter for almost two years to no avail.
Kara was initially attracted to Jim because he was handsome, friendly, fun-loving, and a return missionary. We became concerned, however, when after a few months the relationship turned both serious and negative. They argued constantly, and our once vibrant and decisive daughter now appeared angry, distant, and dependent. It was clear to everyone friends, siblings, and parents that something was terribly wrong. But when we voiced our concerns, she became defensive. The more we said, the more she defended her new boyfriend.
Our lowest point came when Kara began talking about possibly marrying Jim. We were so frightened, we sat the whole family down and taught a wonderful Family Home Evening lesson on selecting an eternal companion. Our other children loved the lesson, but Kara











