Creating a sexually safe relationship in marriage is difficult for many couples, even when there’s not been betrayal. However, when you add the element of betrayal, it makes creating a secure sexual connection even more challenging. I invited Tammy Hill, LMFT and AASECT member, to join me on the podcast to talk about:

  • How couples can begin exploring this topic safely
  • What she considers the hallmarks of a sexually safe relationship
  • What societal myths keep couples from experiencing a safe sexual relationship
  • What men need to be aware of
  • What women need to be aware of
  • What if there is betrayal? Previous trauma? Health issues?

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About Geoff Steurer

I am a licensed marriage and family therapist, relationship educator, and coach with over 20 years of experience. I am the co-author of, “Love You, Hate the Porn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity”, the host of the weekly podcast, “From Crisis to Connection”, and have produced workbooks, audio programs, and online courses helping couples and individuals heal from the impact of sexual betrayal, unwanted pornography use, partner betrayal trauma, and rebuilding broken trust. As a leader in the field, I am a frequent contributor on these subjects at national conferences, documentaries, blogs, magazines, and podcasts. I also write a weekly relationship advice column available on my blog. I founded and ran an outpatient sexual addiction and betrayal trauma recovery group program for over 14 years, co-founded and chaired a local conference to educate community members about harmful media, and founded and administered a specialized group therapy practice for over 10 years. I currently maintain a private counseling and coaching practice in beautiful Southern Utah where I live with my wife and children.

About Tammy Hill

Tammy Hill, LMFT, ASSECT Member has a private therapeutic practice, and teaches courses on marriage and sexuality at Brigham Young University. She has a new children’s book, “God Made Girls and Boys” that can be found on her website  Her second book, “Your Body and the Plan of Happiness” will be finished next year. She hosts the “Live Your Why” Podcast on Apple and Spotify.  She snd her husband, Jeff Hill, have a combined family with 12 children, with 35 grandchildren and more in the way!