Once again, Kathy has hit the nail directly on the head.
When one is chronically ill one’s thoughts do indeed turn to time; to how illness has, seemingly, slowed down one’s progression. Or has it? With my own illness I see that, for me, the Lord has chosen to work on me in a different way than others who are enjoying health of their physical body.
I do not begrudge Him the things I’ve learned during this period. I marvel instead at the different paths He takes each of us down. And I now see clearly how our health trials also create growth and progression in those who love us.
I know that, in the place she now resides, Kathy is STILL collecting her thoughts with every intention to share them with others; to create hope, to create laughter, to create self-examination, as she has so beautifully done during her earth life here. Are books produced in the Spirit Realm? Maybe not in the form we’re used to; but I believe that knowledge and wisdom and faith, such as Kathy has developed, are highly sought after there.
May the Lord bless Clark with all that he needs until he rejoins his sweetheart.
Elaine ThatcherDecember 18, 2015
I first met Kathy in college at BYU, where she was a nonmember who chose BYU because she found out they didn't allow smoking there. At least that's what she told me. We were friends for the year and a half I attended the Y, and then a few years later, we met again in a singles ward in Salt Lake. I was surprised but not surprised that she had joined the church. And that's where she and Clark met. I knew them both and watched their romance develop. Now it's 40 years later, and I haven't seen either of them in all those years. But I found her book, Paradise Vue, early on and loved the way she shed comedic light on our Mormon foibles. Then, through her blog, I discovered just a few years ago how deep she ran underneath that funny personality. Her thoughtful essays on life, faith, and challenges were inspiring. I wanted so much to be able to see her again in person, but I guess that will have to wait until I cross over. My love to Clark and all the family and friends that Kathy left behind.
Marian StoddardDecember 18, 2015
I was one who sent in responses to Circle of Sisters questions a few times, and ended up with an ongoing correspondence with Kathy which was entirely independent of those occasions. She was the impetus to get me writing, and in her next place she offered me a chance to be a part of it, where I am still writing. I have been connected in love with this most remarkable friend, though geography kept us from more than a virtual embrace. I'm missing her, but all is well now for her. Prayers for Clark, who will find it hard not to have her right there.
Andre MostertDecember 18, 2015
I've read Kathy's various articles over the many years she has been publishing them in Meridian. I have always loved them.
I may be one of your few readers who has a copy of the book she wrote with Orson Scott Card...Lovelock. I have hoped they would write a series.
She will be missed. Our prayers are with Fluffy. As an older widower,
I know something of what he is going through.
ZulmaDecember 18, 2015
I had the privilege of knowing Kathy and serving in the DC Temple with her for many years. I met her there and the very first time I met her she gave a bear hug that I can still feel. We had many many lunch dates and Empty Nesters in her home every month. She is the most incredible sister anyone will ever meet. I don't know how Fluffy will take all of this. They were devoted to one another, the likes of which I have never seen and perhaps never will. As a Hispanic, we never say "goodbye" we say "Hasta la vista" or till I see you again and I know I will. She is wowing them all right now, I am sure. Love you lots, my dear friend. La Zulma
Violet RogersDecember 18, 2015
How I enjoyed her questions and articles. I felt like I was sitting down having a conversation with a friend whenever I read anything she posted. She will be greatly missed.
ayse kochDecember 18, 2015
Kathy was a a precious keepsake for those of us who so enjoyed her writing. I never knew her in person, but through her writings I knew her spirit. What a blessing to have known her! I will miss her as one of my dear sisters, and pray for her family that they may be comforted.
Debi RDecember 17, 2015
I have always looked forward to her messages and insight. One of those people you 'meet' online and wish you could know them in person. Prayers for blessings of comfort to her loved ones. It is amazing what she accomplished with her physical limitations... just imagine what she's doing now!!! What a beautiful message to say farewell with.
PaulaDecember 17, 2015
I loved Kathy's wisdom and insight. She was an example of light and joy amid her physical challenges. Press on tortoise and sprint to the finish.
Pamela SmithDecember 17, 2015
Once again, Kathy has hit the nail directly on the head.
When one is chronically ill one’s thoughts do indeed turn to time; to how illness has, seemingly, slowed down one’s progression. Or has it? With my own illness I see that, for me, the Lord has chosen to work on me in a different way than others who are enjoying health of their physical body.
I do not begrudge Him the things I’ve learned during this period. I marvel instead at the different paths He takes each of us down. And I now see clearly how our health trials also create growth and progression in those who love us.
I know that, in the place she now resides, Kathy is STILL collecting her thoughts with every intention to share them with others; to create hope, to create laughter, to create self-examination, as she has so beautifully done during her earth life here. Are books produced in the Spirit Realm? Maybe not in the form we’re used to; but I know that knowledge and wisdom and faith, such as Kathy has developed, are highly sought after there.
May the Lord bless Clark with all that he needs until he rejoins his sweetheart.
vickieDecember 17, 2015
it makes me sad to read this....my brother just died nov 24th this year..he never expected it. he was only 52..he had the widow maker....heart attack. never knew what hit him. from the sounds of her letter it looks like she thought she had time as well. I loved her articles in this ezine...and am praying for her family. I know now without a body she can move about freely.
Daryl HooleDecember 17, 2015
As one of Kathy's "sweet peas," I will miss her. She was a one-of-a-kind, always to be remembered friend and associate. She was a gifted writer--a true word smith--with wisdom and style unique only to Kathy but who reached many people in many places. We loved Kathy and through her we loved Clark, her "Fluffy." Her loyalty and appreciation of him warmed our hearts and inspired us to be loyal and appreciative spouses, too. Paramount was her positive attitude and consistent good cheer, in spite of or perhaps because of her physical challenges. Kathy charmed us all into giving our best effort. Thank you, Kathy!
Tom JohnsonDecember 17, 2015
This seems too sacred to comment on.
Lynn H.December 17, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed her articles.
Nancy HarrisonDecember 17, 2015
Godspeed, little tortoise...
Sorry to see her goDecember 17, 2015
Wow--what a shock to wake up to see. I loved her insights and she even posted a question I had once on Circle of Sisters, one that she let go for a few weeks. It helped. She helped. She gave far more than I think she'll ever know, and while I never met her in person, I feel like I know her--know her, and will miss her.
Joy LundbergDecember 17, 2015
I loved working with Kathy. She was always kind, patient, and funny. I enjoyed her writing. She taught faith and hope. She endured to the end. Heaven is blessed to have her there...lucky them. We will miss her. We pray for her family to be comforted.
Rae GreenstreetDecember 17, 2015
I served with Sister Kidd in the Washington DC Temple. I saw her last on November 20 sitting at the desk answering the phone. She did as she always did when she saw me; greeting me and handing me those delicious Werther's caramel candies. Tears of sadness and joy are shed for her.
Par RasmussonDecember 16, 2015
Working with Kathy was always such a pleasure. Her quick wit and writing skills will be greatly missed!
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Pamela Morgan SmithDecember 25, 2015
Once again, Kathy has hit the nail directly on the head. When one is chronically ill one’s thoughts do indeed turn to time; to how illness has, seemingly, slowed down one’s progression. Or has it? With my own illness I see that, for me, the Lord has chosen to work on me in a different way than others who are enjoying health of their physical body. I do not begrudge Him the things I’ve learned during this period. I marvel instead at the different paths He takes each of us down. And I now see clearly how our health trials also create growth and progression in those who love us. I know that, in the place she now resides, Kathy is STILL collecting her thoughts with every intention to share them with others; to create hope, to create laughter, to create self-examination, as she has so beautifully done during her earth life here. Are books produced in the Spirit Realm? Maybe not in the form we’re used to; but I believe that knowledge and wisdom and faith, such as Kathy has developed, are highly sought after there. May the Lord bless Clark with all that he needs until he rejoins his sweetheart.
Elaine ThatcherDecember 18, 2015
I first met Kathy in college at BYU, where she was a nonmember who chose BYU because she found out they didn't allow smoking there. At least that's what she told me. We were friends for the year and a half I attended the Y, and then a few years later, we met again in a singles ward in Salt Lake. I was surprised but not surprised that she had joined the church. And that's where she and Clark met. I knew them both and watched their romance develop. Now it's 40 years later, and I haven't seen either of them in all those years. But I found her book, Paradise Vue, early on and loved the way she shed comedic light on our Mormon foibles. Then, through her blog, I discovered just a few years ago how deep she ran underneath that funny personality. Her thoughtful essays on life, faith, and challenges were inspiring. I wanted so much to be able to see her again in person, but I guess that will have to wait until I cross over. My love to Clark and all the family and friends that Kathy left behind.
Marian StoddardDecember 18, 2015
I was one who sent in responses to Circle of Sisters questions a few times, and ended up with an ongoing correspondence with Kathy which was entirely independent of those occasions. She was the impetus to get me writing, and in her next place she offered me a chance to be a part of it, where I am still writing. I have been connected in love with this most remarkable friend, though geography kept us from more than a virtual embrace. I'm missing her, but all is well now for her. Prayers for Clark, who will find it hard not to have her right there.
Andre MostertDecember 18, 2015
I've read Kathy's various articles over the many years she has been publishing them in Meridian. I have always loved them. I may be one of your few readers who has a copy of the book she wrote with Orson Scott Card...Lovelock. I have hoped they would write a series. She will be missed. Our prayers are with Fluffy. As an older widower, I know something of what he is going through.
ZulmaDecember 18, 2015
I had the privilege of knowing Kathy and serving in the DC Temple with her for many years. I met her there and the very first time I met her she gave a bear hug that I can still feel. We had many many lunch dates and Empty Nesters in her home every month. She is the most incredible sister anyone will ever meet. I don't know how Fluffy will take all of this. They were devoted to one another, the likes of which I have never seen and perhaps never will. As a Hispanic, we never say "goodbye" we say "Hasta la vista" or till I see you again and I know I will. She is wowing them all right now, I am sure. Love you lots, my dear friend. La Zulma
Violet RogersDecember 18, 2015
How I enjoyed her questions and articles. I felt like I was sitting down having a conversation with a friend whenever I read anything she posted. She will be greatly missed.
ayse kochDecember 18, 2015
Kathy was a a precious keepsake for those of us who so enjoyed her writing. I never knew her in person, but through her writings I knew her spirit. What a blessing to have known her! I will miss her as one of my dear sisters, and pray for her family that they may be comforted.
Debi RDecember 17, 2015
I have always looked forward to her messages and insight. One of those people you 'meet' online and wish you could know them in person. Prayers for blessings of comfort to her loved ones. It is amazing what she accomplished with her physical limitations... just imagine what she's doing now!!! What a beautiful message to say farewell with.
PaulaDecember 17, 2015
I loved Kathy's wisdom and insight. She was an example of light and joy amid her physical challenges. Press on tortoise and sprint to the finish.
Pamela SmithDecember 17, 2015
Once again, Kathy has hit the nail directly on the head. When one is chronically ill one’s thoughts do indeed turn to time; to how illness has, seemingly, slowed down one’s progression. Or has it? With my own illness I see that, for me, the Lord has chosen to work on me in a different way than others who are enjoying health of their physical body. I do not begrudge Him the things I’ve learned during this period. I marvel instead at the different paths He takes each of us down. And I now see clearly how our health trials also create growth and progression in those who love us. I know that, in the place she now resides, Kathy is STILL collecting her thoughts with every intention to share them with others; to create hope, to create laughter, to create self-examination, as she has so beautifully done during her earth life here. Are books produced in the Spirit Realm? Maybe not in the form we’re used to; but I know that knowledge and wisdom and faith, such as Kathy has developed, are highly sought after there. May the Lord bless Clark with all that he needs until he rejoins his sweetheart.
vickieDecember 17, 2015
it makes me sad to read this....my brother just died nov 24th this year..he never expected it. he was only 52..he had the widow maker....heart attack. never knew what hit him. from the sounds of her letter it looks like she thought she had time as well. I loved her articles in this ezine...and am praying for her family. I know now without a body she can move about freely.
Daryl HooleDecember 17, 2015
As one of Kathy's "sweet peas," I will miss her. She was a one-of-a-kind, always to be remembered friend and associate. She was a gifted writer--a true word smith--with wisdom and style unique only to Kathy but who reached many people in many places. We loved Kathy and through her we loved Clark, her "Fluffy." Her loyalty and appreciation of him warmed our hearts and inspired us to be loyal and appreciative spouses, too. Paramount was her positive attitude and consistent good cheer, in spite of or perhaps because of her physical challenges. Kathy charmed us all into giving our best effort. Thank you, Kathy!
Tom JohnsonDecember 17, 2015
This seems too sacred to comment on.
Lynn H.December 17, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed her articles.
Nancy HarrisonDecember 17, 2015
Godspeed, little tortoise...
Sorry to see her goDecember 17, 2015
Wow--what a shock to wake up to see. I loved her insights and she even posted a question I had once on Circle of Sisters, one that she let go for a few weeks. It helped. She helped. She gave far more than I think she'll ever know, and while I never met her in person, I feel like I know her--know her, and will miss her.
Joy LundbergDecember 17, 2015
I loved working with Kathy. She was always kind, patient, and funny. I enjoyed her writing. She taught faith and hope. She endured to the end. Heaven is blessed to have her there...lucky them. We will miss her. We pray for her family to be comforted.
Rae GreenstreetDecember 17, 2015
I served with Sister Kidd in the Washington DC Temple. I saw her last on November 20 sitting at the desk answering the phone. She did as she always did when she saw me; greeting me and handing me those delicious Werther's caramel candies. Tears of sadness and joy are shed for her.
Par RasmussonDecember 16, 2015
Working with Kathy was always such a pleasure. Her quick wit and writing skills will be greatly missed!
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