Good answer Geoff.
Divorce youself from the situation. If he's screamed in the car on the way to church. Sit a way from him. If he comes near you, ask him to sit elsewhere.. Loudly.
If he goes grocery shopping with you, tell him he is not invited,. He will not hear you, so you don't go. Starve over being with him in public.
if he's yelling at a friend's house in front of everyone, (make sure you have the keys) leave. He and the kids can get a lift home.
You need some space to figure out what you are living with. If he is a Narcissist he will get worse with age. Research the traits. 30 yrs, of a covert one.. I'm out. His last 'we are getting divorced' made me get up and leave. 5 kids had gone.. It was my out.
3 yrs on life is stable, peaceful, and I have control and I'm 8 hrs away from him.
I love it!
If the atonement can reach him.. I doubt it, then maybe we can work. We are only seperated as he never filed papers. I have no desire to walk on egg shells ever again.
I'm sorry he's a drop kick, but you don't need to put up with it. Make some changes today. Don't put yourself last
Good luck
Susan Yank PorterJanuary 24, 2025
It sounds like he might be a narcissist. I speak from experience. Get out.
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SarahJanuary 24, 2025
Good answer Geoff. Divorce youself from the situation. If he's screamed in the car on the way to church. Sit a way from him. If he comes near you, ask him to sit elsewhere.. Loudly. If he goes grocery shopping with you, tell him he is not invited,. He will not hear you, so you don't go. Starve over being with him in public. if he's yelling at a friend's house in front of everyone, (make sure you have the keys) leave. He and the kids can get a lift home. You need some space to figure out what you are living with. If he is a Narcissist he will get worse with age. Research the traits. 30 yrs, of a covert one.. I'm out. His last 'we are getting divorced' made me get up and leave. 5 kids had gone.. It was my out. 3 yrs on life is stable, peaceful, and I have control and I'm 8 hrs away from him. I love it! If the atonement can reach him.. I doubt it, then maybe we can work. We are only seperated as he never filed papers. I have no desire to walk on egg shells ever again. I'm sorry he's a drop kick, but you don't need to put up with it. Make some changes today. Don't put yourself last Good luck
Susan Yank PorterJanuary 24, 2025
It sounds like he might be a narcissist. I speak from experience. Get out.
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