Jacob, how is having a goatee not representative of Christ?
Jacob HessMarch 8, 2020
Thank you everyone for the input – including those who trusted me to hear thoughtful critique.
I’ve been pondering all you’ve said – and want to share a couple of short responses.
First of all, I agree it’s far too easy to fall into an attacking, condemning spirit in these matters. The letter was not meant to “malign” or “condemn” this professor, as much as raise concerns about the implications (even inadvertent ones) of his commentary.
As far as tone is concerned, I do admit feeling frustration at seeing those we’ve entrusted in this sacred calling of sorts (called a BYU professor) contributing to student confusion on issues already so confusing. I fear this happens more than we might know. But however much it does, I agree that we must respond as Christ would.
But what is that? Although I do believe Jesus would have us show softness whenever possible, warning about spiritual threats is a special case. I don’t doubt the good Dr. Brau has done, Ellie, and the positive intentions behind this sharing (thanks to Hunter for the devotional link).
Neither do I doubt, Brett, that “this is a deeply spiritual matter over which much pondering, prayer, and study has been done.”
I maintain, however, that the audio in question confirms exactly what I suggest: an over-eager imposition of a particular socio-political narrative on top of other ways of thinking that would have been more consistent with prophetic guidance in the past. In other words, this didn’t have to end up so confusing.
That is part of the answer to David’s serious question, alongside his comment about praying for such a change for years. There is also background information I gathered in fact checking that confirmed this impression.
Lastly, I’d like to respond to the parent’s impassioned comments: I can’t imagine how scary it would be to see your child grappling with the will to live. I don’t begrudge your passion in the least. However, let’s be clear: no one is denying the preciousness of these individuals, however – including active members and prophetic leadership.
And especially on matters so sensitive, it’s important that we deal with the full truth. In that respect, I would encourage you to consider that idea that your son is living in a church “that calls him an abomination, that lumps him alongside murderers and pedophiles, that welcomes the day when Christ returns to destroy him and his kind” is simply NOT true. It’s just not.
Furthermore, I’m not the only one who has argued that precisely this kind of rhetoric can contribute to suicidality among youth – to the point that they verily believe this bifurcation represents their legitimate choice: “he’d come to a crossroad where he was going to live honestly or he was going to end his life.”
That IS a despairing crossroad! But could it be a function of the very narrative I’ve been writing about? One that positions one’s “true identity” against the teachings of Christ’s church?
I think so. One thing is for sure, it’s not the prophets telling kids these are the only options. Let’s all be careful what we’re telling these precious children!
Lastly, I’ve requested the dreadlock example be changed to goatees. My apologies in advance for the faithful disciples with goatees…(:
I recommitted to the Lord this morning a desire to have a soft heart to our critics – and to be careful of speaking as He would have us all. Thank you again for all the feedback.
HunterMarch 6, 2020
I watched a BYU devotional in 2011 in which a professor talked about the importance of sharing spiritual thoughts in our classes at BYU. He explained that BYU is a special place and he encouraged professors to invite the spirit by beginning class with a prayer and a spiritual thought.This devotional changed the way I teach my classes. Since that time, I have always opened my lectures with prayer and a spiritual thought. I have had many students over the years reach out to me and thank me for what I've shared. Each week is a different thought, based on what I feel guided to share. I pray about it and put a lot of thought into it. The professor who gave that devotional and who changed my teaching and my students' lives was Dr. James Brau. Let's look at all the good he has done and not focus on one thing that you may disagree with. Here's a link to the devotional if anyone is interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xneD60fYSQk
Dennis HorneMarch 6, 2020
The letter from the CES commissioner's office should put this question to welcome rest.
Dennis HorneMarch 6, 2020
The letter puts this all to rest, including correcting the activist professor who now looks foolish for imposing his interpretation as the true and correct one.
MaryannMarch 5, 2020
Elder Paul V. Johnson, of the Seventy, also serves as Commissioner of the Church Educational System. His recent letter clarifies that romantic behavior between same-sex couples is NOT in harmony with the BYU Code of Honor. Period. End of story. There should be no need for further debate, rationalization, or justification for those who break the Code of Honor by engaging in any romantic behavior between same-sex couples.
Ellie GMarch 5, 2020
I am a student in Brau's class who was there for this lecture and heard it all in context. Jim Brau is a wonderful man who is kind and loving. He supports his students and he was doing his best!! He was conveying the interpretation many made from the change in the honor code. He is a faithful, covenant-keeping man!! He changes the lives of his students. BYU is a better place because of people like Jim Brau!!
BHIDMarch 3, 2020
Here's my take, for what it is worth.
This is a difficult topic because there is so much shame associated with having same-gender attraction. As long as the individual didn't make the conscious choice to become same-gender oriented in their sexual orientation this is a weakness and not a sin. We all have weaknesses and there is no real shame in that. The Lord taught that He gives us weakness to bring us unto Him and He can make weak things strong. So there is purpose in weakness. However, just because we understand weakness, empathize with it, and don't judge others doesn't mean we should condone it in ourselves or others.
Same-sex kissing, petting, and such are still against the honor code in that they violate the law of chastity. Even beyond this, one of the questions I am required to ask each time I interview a member of my ward is if they are encouraging others to keep the honor code. Same-sex kissing and petting undoubtedly discourage others from keeping the honor code. Since there is no real difference in whether same-sex romantic behavior is against the honor code I suspect that this wording change was likely made for accreditation reasons.
President Ballard and BYU have stated that BYU and I assume BYU-I and the other Church schools will handle these issues on a case-by-case basis. To me, this means that if a student has committed a violation of the law of chastity we will be very careful to assess if they are repentant, if they are predatory in nature, and if they are openly opposing the Church's teachings on morality. This is what we already did. We likely won't expel them if there is any realistic hope that they will repent, which is how they were already treated. However, in more extreme situations students who violate rules of conduct will still likely be asked to continue their education in one of the many, many available alternative universities that don't have our standards. It will certainly be the same with straight students who violate the laws of chastity.
The standards of the Church aren't changing, and the Lord still expects us to do hard things and trust in Him even when we are suffering or struggling with very hard things. The Lord also expects us to treat those who are suffering or struggling lovingly and with great respect and to understand that there is no shame in the struggle. I feel that balancing out is these two concepts is one of the tasks of a true saint.
Gary RummlerMarch 2, 2020
So what are you saying? If two coeds walk to class holding hands will they be kicked out of BYU? Or if two guys attend a concert together do we insist on knowing if they are dating or just friends who enjoy the same kind of music? Being gay is not a crime against God. It also should not be a crime against BYU.
Tom ArmitageMarch 1, 2020
An excellent rebuttal and one I whole heartedly embrace. Why I ask do we continue to allow Professors who are and have been directly adversarial to the Teachings of the Gospel to remain at a Church Sponsored College? I understand difference of opinions but these people are actively teaching incorrect principles.
JanMarch 1, 2020
That was a kindly-worded and thoughtful article. Thank you.
Considering that Professor Brau has gay family member, I understand that his wish for the Lord (and BYU) to change their positions on acting on SSA, but until that happens, he should be removed from his position of direct influence on students who may already be confused on this issue.
We send our children to BYU for faith building experiences and to benefit from an environment of open dialogue where questions about the Lord’s plan can be explored with the support of professors of faith. They need counsel that clarifies, not confuses, them.
Wen RojFebruary 29, 2020
Confusion and division are two of satan’s most effective tools. How he must be laughing at BYU right now.
JamieFebruary 29, 2020
Dreads are your example for not representing Christ? https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/29/opinion/black-hair-girls-shaming.html
vickieFebruary 29, 2020
yes I see many changes happening in the church....but I don't think I see a lessening of standards. I think that we should stick with the missionary keeping his hair neat and his face shaved. its a cleaner look and I don't see anything wrong with keeping those same standards. what they do when they come back from their mission is their business but while on the mission being Christlike to me means clean shaven and neat and tidy...as a mother of two sons who went on missions and three grandkids as well.
Peter GilesFebruary 28, 2020
I am surprised and saddened at the anger directed towards Brother Brau. I am a student in his class and he consistently brings the Spirit through daily spiritual thoughts. I wish more professors taught with such a focus on Christ as he does. He also invites anyone struggling with their faith to talk with him and he ministers to them and strengthens their testimony. He is clearly just promoting a culture of love and repeating what the honor code office told him.
It is very sad to see how quick some people in the comments are to judge him. This is something that means a great deal to him and to some members of his class - of course he would be enthusiastic in sharing it. He is also very enthusiastic about sharing thoughts about the Holy Ghost, faith, the importance of following the Prophet, having clean language, the power of prayer, and many other gospel topics.
I was surprised by the honor code adjustment as well but it is not up to me. I love BYU and will keep attending here and I support any changes by the brethren. I will keep living how I know I should and will support others as they do the same. It is not my place to judge and it never will be.
SueFebruary 28, 2020
I don't appreciate my tithing funds going to promote such ideology as Professor Brau is spouting off. We send our children to BYU so they are in an environment to learn that has Spiritual foundations. This sickens me and I appreciate your editorial and in my opinion an investigation should be done with professors such as this.
JaneFebruary 28, 2020
John, I agree with you. Our family are very supportive of BYU and have sent our kids (and now grandkids) to BYU. However, this is NOT the BYU we knew and loved--a place where students could be taught in keeping with the doctrines of the Church. I do not understand why professors who teach against the stated doctrines of the Church are allowed to teach there. If people want the teaching of the world, they are free to go or send their kids elsewhere. Dean Worthen, where are you? A student reading the Proclamation on the Family being met with opposition, even cursing and hate? What has BYU come to? (Please, don't accuse me of homophobia--I have a lesbian daughter whom I love and she loves me, but that doesn't require me to ignore the teachings of scripture and the prophets or lose my testimony of the Plan of Salvation.)
Sela Pau’uFebruary 28, 2020
I do understand what this article is about and know enough to be grateful that there’s a living prophet among us. I am sure people will use this as a platform to criticize the leaders and the church. I need to hold on to the iron rod and keep walking in the strait and narrow path. Yes, Nephi is teaching us in 2nd Nephi 28 ...that is what is going on right now. President Nelson said “ truth is truth” I have no fear or doubts because this is the Lord’s church He leads and guides His leaders. I trust the Lord and fix my eyes on Him and trust His leaders. That is the TRUTH that I hold on to. CFM is the latter day Liahona we need to listen and do it so we can be guided in this confusing times. The higher law will separate the wheat from the tares. We need to be humble and listen to our living prophet.
LGBTQ+ ParentFebruary 27, 2020
I’m the father of an LGBTQ+ former BYU student who came out to my wife and me last month. BYU was NOT a good experience for him. He said he’d come to a crossroad where he was going to live honestly or he was going to end his life.
I’m disgusted by the tone of this article and these comments.
My son has spent a lifetime suffering silently in a church culture that calls him an abomination, that lumps him alongside murderers and pedophiles, that welcomes the day when Christ returns to destroy him and his kind.
He had earned his place at BYU. He had as much right as any straight student to be there. Rejection like that shown above nearly drove him to suicide. These students are BEAUTIFUL people who shoulder an unimaginable and lonely burden. Where in this article do you honor those righteous LGBTQ+ students for their valiant efforts to make the best of an impossible situation? Where in these comments do members demonstrate a willingness to mourn with those who mourn?
I admire Professor Brau for his caring and optimism, for his hope that LGBTQ+ students at BYU can live honest AND chaste lives just the same as straight students. He has clearly mourned with those students in their suffering. He represents the BEST that BYU has to offer its students.
I’m thankful for a church that acknowledges that being LGBTQ+ is not a choice and not a sin. This is official church doctrine. In the past, the slightest expression of those feelings at BYU was strictly prohibited (hand holding, kissing). This is no longer the case.
If you’d come down off your rameuptoms for a while you’d discover our LGBTQ+ children to be the among the finest of all God’s creations.
Spencer StevensFebruary 27, 2020
As a gay man myself who is endowed and worthy of said endowment, I find it shocking and saddening that a BYU professor would give himself over to such apostate views. Celestial marriage is a path, not a singular event, and our Heavenly Father & Mother followed that path. Being commanded to be as Father is, which is perfect, can anyone legitimately prove that same-sex dating, romance, sex, and marriage are within that covenant path of perfection? Unless you can show, in context, that scripture or teachings of modern day prophets can establish this, then please don't pretend to teach "true doctrine" of another kind that our Heavenly Parents haven't exemplified, as though there is more than one way of becoming perfect as They are. Furthermore, the temple clearly teaches the Father's Law of Chastity, and President Nelson VERY recently just declared that our Father hasn't changed that. If you want to follow the prophet, do so. If not, then it will be to your own spiritual demise. In the meantime, I express my love for those who feel differently and invite you to reconsider your ways in this particular situation. I am not perfect myself. But, I do know what is right. :)
M. CummingsFebruary 27, 2020
I support the leadership of our church in navigating this very personal and sensitive issue. However, the tone of this article lacks compassion for and sensitivity to people who experience life as a gay person. It seems to me that we should speak from a place of love in our church. President Nelson is a great example of this.
Arwen TaylorFebruary 27, 2020
Why can't someone with dreadlocks represent Christ?
Pat VassilarosFebruary 27, 2020
Does BYU Administration know about this? If not, they should.
CuzinFebruary 27, 2020
This is the perfect opportunity to remember to rely on the Holy Ghost for answers, not “the natural man” or professors.
We need to be praying, studying our scriptures, attending church and the temple, reading and pondering what our prophet and general authorities teach us.
The Lord is sifting the wheat, and those that do not have a testimony will be blown this way and that way in the wind from all the “hot wind” of the “learned”.
Robert PowelsonFebruary 27, 2020
This professor needs to be hauled up very short and soon. His ideas are not those of the BYU I graduated from, nor are the consistent with the doctrines and moral standards of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints of which I am a 5th generation member. The Church that I served a mission for married in the temple and with my wife had four children.
James WatsonFebruary 27, 2020
I read your article but saw no explanation for the change in the BYU code. why was it changed. You do not explain the reasoning. It seems
logical to infer that the Church is bowing to the Gay or trans perhaps due to public pressure or other reasons.
B. K.February 27, 2020
Mine is a question rather than a comment: Considering the BYU code of standard/s, why then is this professor allowed to continue to teach? Shouldn't this professor/s be held to the same level of standard in their teaching as the student/s in their behavior? This professor is representing the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints university and I am appalled that the professor is continuing to teach, and you say, 'others like him', sends a very bad message to those not of our faith.
Emily NeuhausFebruary 27, 2020
I’m a student at BYU and I agree this is a huge problem. I had a professor last week tell my class that the prophets have made many mistakes in our church. That banning blacks from the priesthood was a mistake fueled by racism and we need to accept it as such. A religious professor told my friend that it is not doctrine that children can’t be baptized before 8. There is a serious problem with the professors at Brigham Young University leading students away from truth.
Neal ChristensenFebruary 27, 2020
God gave us a brain and a spiritual intellect, and intends for us to use them to choose the right path without being directed in every minute detail. We have our agency, and if that agency leads us to rationalize (rational lies?) behavior we know is wrong, we will suffer the consequences. Remember CTR...Choose The Right.
RonFebruary 27, 2020
Amen and Thank You!
Monica PhillipyFebruary 27, 2020
Please professor feel free to teach somewhere else. Times are hard enough and what is needed is a teacher student and parents alike should be able to trust with gospel teachings is so very important. At the least make sure you have a complete and spiritual understanding of these principles. Have you not read the Proclamation or understood the basic foundations of the gospel? Teachings based on love and understanding not one on changing moral values and strength to uphold those values is what is needed to be taught.
DanielaFebruary 27, 2020
Thanks so much for writing this article. It was a much needed explanation after this past week confusion. Very well written and enlightening.
Brett OgdenFebruary 27, 2020
You might consider that Professor Brau and others who have been praying for such a change are not wanting the Church to cave to an "insurgent liberal agenda" or a "preferred socio-political narrative". Rather, this is a deeply spiritual matter over which much pondering, prayer, and study has been done.
Pauline Bennion HarryFebruary 27, 2020
Well thought out commentary. Thank you
ElizaFebruary 27, 2020
This article is much needed and should be widely read. Jame Brau has a trans daughter and I am sure that affects his point of view dramatically.
KateFebruary 27, 2020
Well said !
True and righteousness will prevail, regardless of any professors teaching otherwise!
Ruth JamiesonFebruary 27, 2020
It makes me think that the only safe place where there is peace, strength and spiritual safety to navigate through the false philosophies of the world is in the walls of the temple. People who claim to be good members of the church are particularly confusing when they present such falsehoods.
RobertFebruary 27, 2020
I have been a member all my life. I hold my membership, my God, The Prophet and the Gospel as the cornerstone of my life. Should this Church begin to conform to the mores and cultural vagaries of the progressive liberals (who have almost virtually destroyed our society) I will no longer consider myself a part of this Church. I will continue to worship Christ, follow the teachings of the Book of Mormon, and honor the covenants I have made with the Lord. The Lord is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow and I do not believe he will bend with the wind, nor do I believe The Prophet will alter divine scripture. The Prophets have warned us that forces will exist that change the practices and customs of society in ways that are in conflict with the laws of God. I believe we are entering these perilous times and only a strong testimony of Jesus Christ will protect us and carry us through them.
DavidFebruary 27, 2020
Jacob – I’ve followed and appreciated your writings for a couple years now, but believe you may have gone too far with this one, and although I’ve never before heard of the Professor, believe you may have unfairly maligned him. I listened to his statement. Where, exactly, do I find the source for your allegation that the Professor is “one who essentially admitted disagreeing with core teachings of these same apostles for years?” I didn’t hear it in what he said anywhere. Yes, he clearly wanted LGBTQ folks to feel free to be themselves and show affection in acceptable and moral ways as straight kids do at BYU. But there was no advocacy by him that I could detect for same-sex marriage, nor for any immoral behavior. I think you have a confirmation bias issue on this one. Listen to it again.
LanceFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. A very loving, thoughtful and inspired response to a very serious subject. One that if not carefully and prayerfully considered, will have very dire consequences for so many.
CarolineFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you for an excellent article explaining so well how I feel, but am not able to express as well. I think this might be what Hugh Nibley, or Elder Maxwell would be saying if they were here!!
Linda StricklandFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you Brother Hess for explaining this new policy. We send our children and grandchildren to all the church's educational schools for education as well as protection from professors such as the one in the video.
I have a question. Why would you teach or attend a school that goes against a policy they so strongly disagree.
Anne LambertFebruary 27, 2020
Hooray for Jacob Hess and all others like you who know for themselves what real TRUTH is
Melanie SteinFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you Brother Hess, for your much more accurate interpretation of what the change to the BYU Honor Code means. Thank you for speaking out for the many of us who understand that God's laws don't change. We need this support in the face of the incredibly vocal activists who would like to change God's laws. Thank you for not being afraid to stand up for what is right.
Frank MerrillFebruary 27, 2020
By sheer coincidence our seminary students this morning discussed the attitudes about which Nephi cautioned his family and us in 2 Nephi 28. Go read it again, as the similarities are obvious.
GregFebruary 27, 2020
So, the very first question posed, can gays kiss, hold hands, date at BYU? That's what they want clarified. Neither this lengthy article of the change stated in the Honor Code or the honor code itself addresses their question. So can they? Simple question.
The best policy changes are those that are clear, not open for hundreds of opinions.
Justin MFebruary 27, 2020
I felt the article was too long to reach the point (more directly) that the prophet spoke plainly on this topic recently, and that the while the policies and handbook are less prescriptive in wording, the commandments and expected behavior has not changed. Was at dinner with my wife's family a few days ago, and one was livid at what he saw BYU's policy changing to (because of this video) and said he wouldn't send his kids there to be confused. I hadn't seen the video, barely heard about the policy change, but know the will of the Lord, and the direction we are taken to exercise more wise agency unto ourselves and in serving others. I keep (or kept, until a recent shaving accident) a trim beard, but remember not being allowed to serve as a veil worker years ago. And so I stopped serving in that capacity. Was I prideful? I suppose. I didn't see the connection between serving and facial hair, but as was explained to me at the time, that people seemed to be more judgemental of what was on my face than in my heart. Hopefully this is the direction we'll be going as a church and as saints, mindful of our own judgements and exercising wise stewardship, while following the Lord's standard in our worthiness.
LauraFebruary 27, 2020
I see the move to change the honor code to be less prescriptive as more of just that. Just like ministering, and come follow me, and the children and youth program... it’s a movement towards a higher law of relying on personal revelation and being proactive in living the Gospel. It’s a weeding out of the tares and it will become more and more obvious and easy to discern between those who are striving to be true disciples and followers of Christ and who are just members checking off all the right boxes but following the world.
JohnFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you fir this article.
BYU I and BYU Hawaii still say no acting on SSA. Provo is the only school that interpreted it as being allowed due to wording removal. There are quite a few professors (Brau included) who have been trying to push this agenda for years.
The prophet and apostles did not approve of this. The BoT approved of wording removal and BYU Provo had some administrators go rogue to push an agenda.
Yesterday a student took a stand and read the family proclamation on campus. He was met with cursing, hate and even a death threat online... all for reading church doctrine on the campus of the churches college. The campus is becoming increasingly unsafe for those who actually do follow the prophet and apostles and who do stand for truth. All because certain professors and administrators have allowed this progressive agenda to grow to the point it has.
I pray the brethren step in and fix this soon. Brau and others should be fired.
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ScottMarch 14, 2020
Jacob, how is having a goatee not representative of Christ?
Jacob HessMarch 8, 2020
Thank you everyone for the input – including those who trusted me to hear thoughtful critique. I’ve been pondering all you’ve said – and want to share a couple of short responses. First of all, I agree it’s far too easy to fall into an attacking, condemning spirit in these matters. The letter was not meant to “malign” or “condemn” this professor, as much as raise concerns about the implications (even inadvertent ones) of his commentary. As far as tone is concerned, I do admit feeling frustration at seeing those we’ve entrusted in this sacred calling of sorts (called a BYU professor) contributing to student confusion on issues already so confusing. I fear this happens more than we might know. But however much it does, I agree that we must respond as Christ would. But what is that? Although I do believe Jesus would have us show softness whenever possible, warning about spiritual threats is a special case. I don’t doubt the good Dr. Brau has done, Ellie, and the positive intentions behind this sharing (thanks to Hunter for the devotional link). Neither do I doubt, Brett, that “this is a deeply spiritual matter over which much pondering, prayer, and study has been done.” I maintain, however, that the audio in question confirms exactly what I suggest: an over-eager imposition of a particular socio-political narrative on top of other ways of thinking that would have been more consistent with prophetic guidance in the past. In other words, this didn’t have to end up so confusing. That is part of the answer to David’s serious question, alongside his comment about praying for such a change for years. There is also background information I gathered in fact checking that confirmed this impression. Lastly, I’d like to respond to the parent’s impassioned comments: I can’t imagine how scary it would be to see your child grappling with the will to live. I don’t begrudge your passion in the least. However, let’s be clear: no one is denying the preciousness of these individuals, however – including active members and prophetic leadership. And especially on matters so sensitive, it’s important that we deal with the full truth. In that respect, I would encourage you to consider that idea that your son is living in a church “that calls him an abomination, that lumps him alongside murderers and pedophiles, that welcomes the day when Christ returns to destroy him and his kind” is simply NOT true. It’s just not. Furthermore, I’m not the only one who has argued that precisely this kind of rhetoric can contribute to suicidality among youth – to the point that they verily believe this bifurcation represents their legitimate choice: “he’d come to a crossroad where he was going to live honestly or he was going to end his life.” That IS a despairing crossroad! But could it be a function of the very narrative I’ve been writing about? One that positions one’s “true identity” against the teachings of Christ’s church? I think so. One thing is for sure, it’s not the prophets telling kids these are the only options. Let’s all be careful what we’re telling these precious children! Lastly, I’ve requested the dreadlock example be changed to goatees. My apologies in advance for the faithful disciples with goatees…(: I recommitted to the Lord this morning a desire to have a soft heart to our critics – and to be careful of speaking as He would have us all. Thank you again for all the feedback.
HunterMarch 6, 2020
I watched a BYU devotional in 2011 in which a professor talked about the importance of sharing spiritual thoughts in our classes at BYU. He explained that BYU is a special place and he encouraged professors to invite the spirit by beginning class with a prayer and a spiritual thought.This devotional changed the way I teach my classes. Since that time, I have always opened my lectures with prayer and a spiritual thought. I have had many students over the years reach out to me and thank me for what I've shared. Each week is a different thought, based on what I feel guided to share. I pray about it and put a lot of thought into it. The professor who gave that devotional and who changed my teaching and my students' lives was Dr. James Brau. Let's look at all the good he has done and not focus on one thing that you may disagree with. Here's a link to the devotional if anyone is interested: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xneD60fYSQk
Dennis HorneMarch 6, 2020
The letter from the CES commissioner's office should put this question to welcome rest.
Dennis HorneMarch 6, 2020
The letter puts this all to rest, including correcting the activist professor who now looks foolish for imposing his interpretation as the true and correct one.
MaryannMarch 5, 2020
Elder Paul V. Johnson, of the Seventy, also serves as Commissioner of the Church Educational System. His recent letter clarifies that romantic behavior between same-sex couples is NOT in harmony with the BYU Code of Honor. Period. End of story. There should be no need for further debate, rationalization, or justification for those who break the Code of Honor by engaging in any romantic behavior between same-sex couples.
Ellie GMarch 5, 2020
I am a student in Brau's class who was there for this lecture and heard it all in context. Jim Brau is a wonderful man who is kind and loving. He supports his students and he was doing his best!! He was conveying the interpretation many made from the change in the honor code. He is a faithful, covenant-keeping man!! He changes the lives of his students. BYU is a better place because of people like Jim Brau!!
BHIDMarch 3, 2020
Here's my take, for what it is worth. This is a difficult topic because there is so much shame associated with having same-gender attraction. As long as the individual didn't make the conscious choice to become same-gender oriented in their sexual orientation this is a weakness and not a sin. We all have weaknesses and there is no real shame in that. The Lord taught that He gives us weakness to bring us unto Him and He can make weak things strong. So there is purpose in weakness. However, just because we understand weakness, empathize with it, and don't judge others doesn't mean we should condone it in ourselves or others. Same-sex kissing, petting, and such are still against the honor code in that they violate the law of chastity. Even beyond this, one of the questions I am required to ask each time I interview a member of my ward is if they are encouraging others to keep the honor code. Same-sex kissing and petting undoubtedly discourage others from keeping the honor code. Since there is no real difference in whether same-sex romantic behavior is against the honor code I suspect that this wording change was likely made for accreditation reasons. President Ballard and BYU have stated that BYU and I assume BYU-I and the other Church schools will handle these issues on a case-by-case basis. To me, this means that if a student has committed a violation of the law of chastity we will be very careful to assess if they are repentant, if they are predatory in nature, and if they are openly opposing the Church's teachings on morality. This is what we already did. We likely won't expel them if there is any realistic hope that they will repent, which is how they were already treated. However, in more extreme situations students who violate rules of conduct will still likely be asked to continue their education in one of the many, many available alternative universities that don't have our standards. It will certainly be the same with straight students who violate the laws of chastity. The standards of the Church aren't changing, and the Lord still expects us to do hard things and trust in Him even when we are suffering or struggling with very hard things. The Lord also expects us to treat those who are suffering or struggling lovingly and with great respect and to understand that there is no shame in the struggle. I feel that balancing out is these two concepts is one of the tasks of a true saint.
Gary RummlerMarch 2, 2020
So what are you saying? If two coeds walk to class holding hands will they be kicked out of BYU? Or if two guys attend a concert together do we insist on knowing if they are dating or just friends who enjoy the same kind of music? Being gay is not a crime against God. It also should not be a crime against BYU.
Tom ArmitageMarch 1, 2020
An excellent rebuttal and one I whole heartedly embrace. Why I ask do we continue to allow Professors who are and have been directly adversarial to the Teachings of the Gospel to remain at a Church Sponsored College? I understand difference of opinions but these people are actively teaching incorrect principles.
JanMarch 1, 2020
That was a kindly-worded and thoughtful article. Thank you. Considering that Professor Brau has gay family member, I understand that his wish for the Lord (and BYU) to change their positions on acting on SSA, but until that happens, he should be removed from his position of direct influence on students who may already be confused on this issue. We send our children to BYU for faith building experiences and to benefit from an environment of open dialogue where questions about the Lord’s plan can be explored with the support of professors of faith. They need counsel that clarifies, not confuses, them.
Wen RojFebruary 29, 2020
Confusion and division are two of satan’s most effective tools. How he must be laughing at BYU right now.
JamieFebruary 29, 2020
Dreads are your example for not representing Christ? https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/29/opinion/black-hair-girls-shaming.html
vickieFebruary 29, 2020
yes I see many changes happening in the church....but I don't think I see a lessening of standards. I think that we should stick with the missionary keeping his hair neat and his face shaved. its a cleaner look and I don't see anything wrong with keeping those same standards. what they do when they come back from their mission is their business but while on the mission being Christlike to me means clean shaven and neat and tidy...as a mother of two sons who went on missions and three grandkids as well.
Peter GilesFebruary 28, 2020
I am surprised and saddened at the anger directed towards Brother Brau. I am a student in his class and he consistently brings the Spirit through daily spiritual thoughts. I wish more professors taught with such a focus on Christ as he does. He also invites anyone struggling with their faith to talk with him and he ministers to them and strengthens their testimony. He is clearly just promoting a culture of love and repeating what the honor code office told him. It is very sad to see how quick some people in the comments are to judge him. This is something that means a great deal to him and to some members of his class - of course he would be enthusiastic in sharing it. He is also very enthusiastic about sharing thoughts about the Holy Ghost, faith, the importance of following the Prophet, having clean language, the power of prayer, and many other gospel topics. I was surprised by the honor code adjustment as well but it is not up to me. I love BYU and will keep attending here and I support any changes by the brethren. I will keep living how I know I should and will support others as they do the same. It is not my place to judge and it never will be.
SueFebruary 28, 2020
I don't appreciate my tithing funds going to promote such ideology as Professor Brau is spouting off. We send our children to BYU so they are in an environment to learn that has Spiritual foundations. This sickens me and I appreciate your editorial and in my opinion an investigation should be done with professors such as this.
JaneFebruary 28, 2020
John, I agree with you. Our family are very supportive of BYU and have sent our kids (and now grandkids) to BYU. However, this is NOT the BYU we knew and loved--a place where students could be taught in keeping with the doctrines of the Church. I do not understand why professors who teach against the stated doctrines of the Church are allowed to teach there. If people want the teaching of the world, they are free to go or send their kids elsewhere. Dean Worthen, where are you? A student reading the Proclamation on the Family being met with opposition, even cursing and hate? What has BYU come to? (Please, don't accuse me of homophobia--I have a lesbian daughter whom I love and she loves me, but that doesn't require me to ignore the teachings of scripture and the prophets or lose my testimony of the Plan of Salvation.)
Sela Pau’uFebruary 28, 2020
I do understand what this article is about and know enough to be grateful that there’s a living prophet among us. I am sure people will use this as a platform to criticize the leaders and the church. I need to hold on to the iron rod and keep walking in the strait and narrow path. Yes, Nephi is teaching us in 2nd Nephi 28 ...that is what is going on right now. President Nelson said “ truth is truth” I have no fear or doubts because this is the Lord’s church He leads and guides His leaders. I trust the Lord and fix my eyes on Him and trust His leaders. That is the TRUTH that I hold on to. CFM is the latter day Liahona we need to listen and do it so we can be guided in this confusing times. The higher law will separate the wheat from the tares. We need to be humble and listen to our living prophet.
LGBTQ+ ParentFebruary 27, 2020
I’m the father of an LGBTQ+ former BYU student who came out to my wife and me last month. BYU was NOT a good experience for him. He said he’d come to a crossroad where he was going to live honestly or he was going to end his life. I’m disgusted by the tone of this article and these comments. My son has spent a lifetime suffering silently in a church culture that calls him an abomination, that lumps him alongside murderers and pedophiles, that welcomes the day when Christ returns to destroy him and his kind. He had earned his place at BYU. He had as much right as any straight student to be there. Rejection like that shown above nearly drove him to suicide. These students are BEAUTIFUL people who shoulder an unimaginable and lonely burden. Where in this article do you honor those righteous LGBTQ+ students for their valiant efforts to make the best of an impossible situation? Where in these comments do members demonstrate a willingness to mourn with those who mourn? I admire Professor Brau for his caring and optimism, for his hope that LGBTQ+ students at BYU can live honest AND chaste lives just the same as straight students. He has clearly mourned with those students in their suffering. He represents the BEST that BYU has to offer its students. I’m thankful for a church that acknowledges that being LGBTQ+ is not a choice and not a sin. This is official church doctrine. In the past, the slightest expression of those feelings at BYU was strictly prohibited (hand holding, kissing). This is no longer the case. If you’d come down off your rameuptoms for a while you’d discover our LGBTQ+ children to be the among the finest of all God’s creations.
Spencer StevensFebruary 27, 2020
As a gay man myself who is endowed and worthy of said endowment, I find it shocking and saddening that a BYU professor would give himself over to such apostate views. Celestial marriage is a path, not a singular event, and our Heavenly Father & Mother followed that path. Being commanded to be as Father is, which is perfect, can anyone legitimately prove that same-sex dating, romance, sex, and marriage are within that covenant path of perfection? Unless you can show, in context, that scripture or teachings of modern day prophets can establish this, then please don't pretend to teach "true doctrine" of another kind that our Heavenly Parents haven't exemplified, as though there is more than one way of becoming perfect as They are. Furthermore, the temple clearly teaches the Father's Law of Chastity, and President Nelson VERY recently just declared that our Father hasn't changed that. If you want to follow the prophet, do so. If not, then it will be to your own spiritual demise. In the meantime, I express my love for those who feel differently and invite you to reconsider your ways in this particular situation. I am not perfect myself. But, I do know what is right. :)
M. CummingsFebruary 27, 2020
I support the leadership of our church in navigating this very personal and sensitive issue. However, the tone of this article lacks compassion for and sensitivity to people who experience life as a gay person. It seems to me that we should speak from a place of love in our church. President Nelson is a great example of this.
Arwen TaylorFebruary 27, 2020
Why can't someone with dreadlocks represent Christ?
Pat VassilarosFebruary 27, 2020
Does BYU Administration know about this? If not, they should.
CuzinFebruary 27, 2020
This is the perfect opportunity to remember to rely on the Holy Ghost for answers, not “the natural man” or professors. We need to be praying, studying our scriptures, attending church and the temple, reading and pondering what our prophet and general authorities teach us. The Lord is sifting the wheat, and those that do not have a testimony will be blown this way and that way in the wind from all the “hot wind” of the “learned”.
Robert PowelsonFebruary 27, 2020
This professor needs to be hauled up very short and soon. His ideas are not those of the BYU I graduated from, nor are the consistent with the doctrines and moral standards of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints of which I am a 5th generation member. The Church that I served a mission for married in the temple and with my wife had four children.
James WatsonFebruary 27, 2020
I read your article but saw no explanation for the change in the BYU code. why was it changed. You do not explain the reasoning. It seems logical to infer that the Church is bowing to the Gay or trans perhaps due to public pressure or other reasons.
B. K.February 27, 2020
Mine is a question rather than a comment: Considering the BYU code of standard/s, why then is this professor allowed to continue to teach? Shouldn't this professor/s be held to the same level of standard in their teaching as the student/s in their behavior? This professor is representing the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints university and I am appalled that the professor is continuing to teach, and you say, 'others like him', sends a very bad message to those not of our faith.
Emily NeuhausFebruary 27, 2020
I’m a student at BYU and I agree this is a huge problem. I had a professor last week tell my class that the prophets have made many mistakes in our church. That banning blacks from the priesthood was a mistake fueled by racism and we need to accept it as such. A religious professor told my friend that it is not doctrine that children can’t be baptized before 8. There is a serious problem with the professors at Brigham Young University leading students away from truth.
Neal ChristensenFebruary 27, 2020
God gave us a brain and a spiritual intellect, and intends for us to use them to choose the right path without being directed in every minute detail. We have our agency, and if that agency leads us to rationalize (rational lies?) behavior we know is wrong, we will suffer the consequences. Remember CTR...Choose The Right.
RonFebruary 27, 2020
Amen and Thank You!
Monica PhillipyFebruary 27, 2020
Please professor feel free to teach somewhere else. Times are hard enough and what is needed is a teacher student and parents alike should be able to trust with gospel teachings is so very important. At the least make sure you have a complete and spiritual understanding of these principles. Have you not read the Proclamation or understood the basic foundations of the gospel? Teachings based on love and understanding not one on changing moral values and strength to uphold those values is what is needed to be taught.
DanielaFebruary 27, 2020
Thanks so much for writing this article. It was a much needed explanation after this past week confusion. Very well written and enlightening.
Brett OgdenFebruary 27, 2020
You might consider that Professor Brau and others who have been praying for such a change are not wanting the Church to cave to an "insurgent liberal agenda" or a "preferred socio-political narrative". Rather, this is a deeply spiritual matter over which much pondering, prayer, and study has been done.
Pauline Bennion HarryFebruary 27, 2020
Well thought out commentary. Thank you
ElizaFebruary 27, 2020
This article is much needed and should be widely read. Jame Brau has a trans daughter and I am sure that affects his point of view dramatically.
KateFebruary 27, 2020
Well said ! True and righteousness will prevail, regardless of any professors teaching otherwise!
Ruth JamiesonFebruary 27, 2020
It makes me think that the only safe place where there is peace, strength and spiritual safety to navigate through the false philosophies of the world is in the walls of the temple. People who claim to be good members of the church are particularly confusing when they present such falsehoods.
RobertFebruary 27, 2020
I have been a member all my life. I hold my membership, my God, The Prophet and the Gospel as the cornerstone of my life. Should this Church begin to conform to the mores and cultural vagaries of the progressive liberals (who have almost virtually destroyed our society) I will no longer consider myself a part of this Church. I will continue to worship Christ, follow the teachings of the Book of Mormon, and honor the covenants I have made with the Lord. The Lord is the same yesterday, today, and tomorrow and I do not believe he will bend with the wind, nor do I believe The Prophet will alter divine scripture. The Prophets have warned us that forces will exist that change the practices and customs of society in ways that are in conflict with the laws of God. I believe we are entering these perilous times and only a strong testimony of Jesus Christ will protect us and carry us through them.
DavidFebruary 27, 2020
Jacob – I’ve followed and appreciated your writings for a couple years now, but believe you may have gone too far with this one, and although I’ve never before heard of the Professor, believe you may have unfairly maligned him. I listened to his statement. Where, exactly, do I find the source for your allegation that the Professor is “one who essentially admitted disagreeing with core teachings of these same apostles for years?” I didn’t hear it in what he said anywhere. Yes, he clearly wanted LGBTQ folks to feel free to be themselves and show affection in acceptable and moral ways as straight kids do at BYU. But there was no advocacy by him that I could detect for same-sex marriage, nor for any immoral behavior. I think you have a confirmation bias issue on this one. Listen to it again.
LanceFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. A very loving, thoughtful and inspired response to a very serious subject. One that if not carefully and prayerfully considered, will have very dire consequences for so many.
CarolineFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you for an excellent article explaining so well how I feel, but am not able to express as well. I think this might be what Hugh Nibley, or Elder Maxwell would be saying if they were here!!
Linda StricklandFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you Brother Hess for explaining this new policy. We send our children and grandchildren to all the church's educational schools for education as well as protection from professors such as the one in the video. I have a question. Why would you teach or attend a school that goes against a policy they so strongly disagree.
Anne LambertFebruary 27, 2020
Hooray for Jacob Hess and all others like you who know for themselves what real TRUTH is
Melanie SteinFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you Brother Hess, for your much more accurate interpretation of what the change to the BYU Honor Code means. Thank you for speaking out for the many of us who understand that God's laws don't change. We need this support in the face of the incredibly vocal activists who would like to change God's laws. Thank you for not being afraid to stand up for what is right.
Frank MerrillFebruary 27, 2020
By sheer coincidence our seminary students this morning discussed the attitudes about which Nephi cautioned his family and us in 2 Nephi 28. Go read it again, as the similarities are obvious.
GregFebruary 27, 2020
So, the very first question posed, can gays kiss, hold hands, date at BYU? That's what they want clarified. Neither this lengthy article of the change stated in the Honor Code or the honor code itself addresses their question. So can they? Simple question. The best policy changes are those that are clear, not open for hundreds of opinions.
Justin MFebruary 27, 2020
I felt the article was too long to reach the point (more directly) that the prophet spoke plainly on this topic recently, and that the while the policies and handbook are less prescriptive in wording, the commandments and expected behavior has not changed. Was at dinner with my wife's family a few days ago, and one was livid at what he saw BYU's policy changing to (because of this video) and said he wouldn't send his kids there to be confused. I hadn't seen the video, barely heard about the policy change, but know the will of the Lord, and the direction we are taken to exercise more wise agency unto ourselves and in serving others. I keep (or kept, until a recent shaving accident) a trim beard, but remember not being allowed to serve as a veil worker years ago. And so I stopped serving in that capacity. Was I prideful? I suppose. I didn't see the connection between serving and facial hair, but as was explained to me at the time, that people seemed to be more judgemental of what was on my face than in my heart. Hopefully this is the direction we'll be going as a church and as saints, mindful of our own judgements and exercising wise stewardship, while following the Lord's standard in our worthiness.
LauraFebruary 27, 2020
I see the move to change the honor code to be less prescriptive as more of just that. Just like ministering, and come follow me, and the children and youth program... it’s a movement towards a higher law of relying on personal revelation and being proactive in living the Gospel. It’s a weeding out of the tares and it will become more and more obvious and easy to discern between those who are striving to be true disciples and followers of Christ and who are just members checking off all the right boxes but following the world.
JohnFebruary 27, 2020
Thank you fir this article. BYU I and BYU Hawaii still say no acting on SSA. Provo is the only school that interpreted it as being allowed due to wording removal. There are quite a few professors (Brau included) who have been trying to push this agenda for years. The prophet and apostles did not approve of this. The BoT approved of wording removal and BYU Provo had some administrators go rogue to push an agenda. Yesterday a student took a stand and read the family proclamation on campus. He was met with cursing, hate and even a death threat online... all for reading church doctrine on the campus of the churches college. The campus is becoming increasingly unsafe for those who actually do follow the prophet and apostles and who do stand for truth. All because certain professors and administrators have allowed this progressive agenda to grow to the point it has. I pray the brethren step in and fix this soon. Brau and others should be fired.
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