An Inside Report
By Maurine Jensen Proctor
Photography by Scot Facer Proctor
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If ever there was a snapshot of the arguments that will fire the same-sex marriage political battles heating up this year, it was at last week’s Senate hearing on the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA).  Seven years ago the bill, defining marriage for purposes of federal law as “only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife” was passed with overwhelming bipartisan support of Congress (85-14 in the Senate, 342-76 in the House).  The laws and traditions of all 50 states were in support.

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Senator John Cornyn, R-Texas

“Recent and pending cases,” said Senator John Cornyn, (R-Texas), “both before the U.S. Supreme Court and in federal and state courts across the country-have raised serious questions regarding the future of the traditional definition of marriage, as embodied in DOMA.  Judicial activism, not democratic and legislative will, has imperiled the future of the widely-supported bill.”

Sen. Cornyn asked, “Will the law of the land be as people intend, or overturned by activist courts?”

A line up of witnesses discussed the legal and social trends that could overturn DOMA, but most intriguing was the posturing and disdain directed at the hearing itself from some of the Senate’s most noted liberal icons. 

Comments from Sens. Edward M. Kennedy (D-Mass), Russell D. Feingold (D-Wisconsin) and Patrick Leahy (D-Vermont) claim against growing evidence that nobody really thinks traditional marriage is under attack and sniffed that a Senate hearing should be held on whether DOMA can survive a court challenge.

These lions of the left sounded like they had shared a speechwriter.

The Argument that the Marriage Debate is Trivial or Untimely

“Why should be spend our limited time on this issue?” said Sen. Leahy.

Sen. Kennedy said, “I wonder what in the world we are doing over here at this hearing that is of essential worth?”

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Senator Russ Feingold, D-Wisconsin

“We just returned from a month of recess and most of us spent a lot of time with our constituents,” said Sen. Feingold.  “I can tell you that my constituents were talking to me about the economy, the loss of jobs to foreign competition, skyrocketing gas prices, the war in Iraq and the fact that our troops are still suffering considerable losses on almost a daily basis.The American people should be united to meet these and other challenges, and they are best served if Congress focuses its attention on these pressing matters.”

So, there is argument number one against those who see traditional marriage seriously threatened and are rising up to do something about it.  Expect to see it when the political discussion turns to protecting marriage.

It is a collective, but perhaps feigned yawn, the claim that advocates for the natural family are looking for solutions where there is no problem.  The idea is to make them feel stupid, marginalized, take the steam out of their engine, refuse to acknowledge the river that is becoming a flood to undo marriage. Imply that traditional marriage advocates are Chicken Littles running around claiming the sky is falling.

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Senatory Patrick Leahy, D-Vermont

In calling the concern about DOMA and the traditional concept of marriage a deviation from what is really important or pressing, these senators already tipped their hand.  Traditional marriage is expendable. 

War, the economy, healthcare concern us and rightfully deserve our attention, but many of these issues are fleeting, changing, and a whole new crop of crises will be upon us next year.  Yet, opening the door to the so-called same-sex “marriage” subverts and assaults the very foundation of society and is a radical and revolutionary social experiment, untried in history, from which we could never retreat.

And this is not important?  Despite the bluster from the left, Sen. Cornyn asserted, “This is a matter of tremendous concern to the American people.”

Argument for Religious Rights

“I do not believe,” said Sen. Feingold, “that Congress should spend time on an issue that should be left to the states and religious institutions. The Free Exercise and the Establishment Clauses of our Constitution guarantee that religious institutions have the freedom to determine without government interference which unions they will recognize.”

In that one statement lie two assumptions that will continually surface as the marriage debate escalates.  The first is a subtle shift with Richter-scale ramifications.  Because marriage is society’s bulwark, every legal and social institution has been in place to support and maintain it. We have a vested interest in marriage because it is the stability of our culture.

Now, Sen. Feingold suggests instead that the government won’t interfere with a religious institution’s right to recognize what unions they choose.

This is a radical idea–moving from using government’s power and mechanisms to support marriage to suggesting that the government will merely stand back and not mettle.

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Senator Edward Kennedy, D-Massachusetts

What’s more, Sen. Kennedy added a new twist on the argument.  He suggested that laws that define marriage, were, in fact, an attack upon religious freedom, undermining the protection of those religious groups who wanted to solemnize same-sex relationships.  This stretch of an argument, like a two-edged sword, is one that will strike marriage proponents both coming and going.

On the one hand, their detractors will argue that laws like DOMA are religiously motivated.  Who else, besides the religious, they imply, would be so sticky about the rules? Why does the definition of marriage have to involve a man and a woman unless it is the work of religious oppressors hog-tying freedom-lovers again? 

Ah, but like Fiddler on the Roof’s  Tevye, there is another hand.  They will also argue that laws defining marriage are an attack upon religion, constricting churches from construing marriage to be anything they want it to be.

Argument for States’ Rights

The 600-pound gorilla at the Senate hearing was a discussion of an amendment to the Constitution defining marriage as the union of a man and a woman.  The hearing was not called about a Constitutional amendment, nor has one been introduced in the Senate, still everybody could see the gorilla.

The Traditional Values Coalition released a statement at the hearing “that 2003 will be remembered as the year America stood its ground and made a last stand in defense of traditional one man/one woman marriage.”

So Sen. Feingold was referring to a Constitutional marriage amendment when he tried to sound like a conservative, appealing to the ideal of federalism and states rights. It could be an issue that may split conservatives as the issue of a Constitutional marriage amendment grows in public awareness and concern.

Though the Defense of Marriage Act is particularly for the purpose of federal law, since marriage and family matters involve citizens so intimately, most laws concerning the family have been left to state governments to determine. Anything that removes these decisions further from the people, argues the federalist, should be avoided.

A sound principle, but sheer hypocrisy applied here, spoken by the same people who cheered the recent Lawrence case that removed sodomy from states’ jurisdictions.

The duplicity is as obvious as the gorilla in the room.  In this case, a Constitutional marriage amendment is the alternative not to the states determining their own laws about marriage.  Instead, it is the alternative to the courts deciding for us what marriage is-upstaging the people who have repeatedly spoken on the issue.

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Michael Farris, Founding President of Patrick Henry College

“The fact is,” said attorney Michael P. Farris, president of Patrick Henry College, “we cannot leave the issue to the courts.  Tyranny is when non-elected officials make the law.  In the Founders era, it was understood that if people do not make the law, tyrants will.  We are on the verge of a judicial revolution that has got to stop before they destroy the culture itself.”

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Gregory Coleman, Former Solicitor General, State of Texas, Austin, Texas

Gregory S. Coleman, former solicitor general of Texas, “A federal constitutional amendment is perhaps the most democratic of all processes-because it requires ratification by three-fourths of the states.”

As experienced and polished as the senators sitting to the left of Mr. Cornyn were at the hearing, their arguments were flimsy, resorting first to the pretense that America would face no crisis, no battlefield over marriage and that DOMA was not in jeopardy.  If DOMA is challenged, they will not say, “you told us so.”

Instead, they will say, as they did at the hearing, that same-sex “marriages” are a necessary human right, that the Constitution is beautiful and sacred and shouldn’t be tampered with, that they love freedom and cannot support anything that restricts it.

What they won’t acknowledge or even entertain is the catastrophic damage awaiting our society if we define marriage away so that in attempting to mean everything, it means nothing, and telling America’s young people that marriage between a man and a woman is no longer the norm or ideal.

Social Experimentation

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Syndicated columnist Maggie Gallagher speaks in the midst of the other witnesses

Maggie Gallagher, President of the Institute for Marriage and Public Policy, testified, “Marriage is a key social institution, but it is also a fragile institution:  with half or more of our children experiencing the suffering, poverty and deprivation of fatherlessness and fragmented families.The marriage crisis is intimately involved with how committed we as a society are to two key ideas:  that children need mothers and fathers, and that marriage is the main way that we create stable, loving mother-father families for children.”

Gallagher, a syndicated columnist, said, “We now have enormous data on this question.  There are not dozens, or hundreds, there are thousands of studies addressing the question of family structure.And the overwhelming consensus of family scholars across ideological and partisan lines is that family structure DOES matter.

“All things being equal, children do better when their mothers and fathers get and stay married.  Both adults and children are better off living in communities where more children are raised by their own two married parents.  Both adults and children live longer, have higher rates of physical health and lower rates of mental illness, experience poverty, crime and domestic abuse less often, and have warmer relationships, on average, when parents get and stay married.”

What’s more stable families are far less expensive for taxpayers who do not have to bear public costs created by higher rates of crime, drug abuse, education failure, domestic violence and welfare expenditure.

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Maggie Gallagher challenged some of the Senators’ assumptions

“Marriage,” said Gallagher, “is in fact a cross-cultural institution.  It is not a mere plaything of passing ideologies but in fact the word for the way that, in virtually every known human culture, society conspires to create ties between mothers, fathers, and the children their sexual unions produce.”

She continued, “In endorsing same-sex marriage, law and government will thus be making a powerful statement; our government no longer believes children need mothers and fathers;  two fathers or two mothers are not only just as good as a mother and a father; they are just the same.

It is a fallacy, Gallagher said, to believe that if we allow unisex couples to marry there will be two kinds of marriage that run parallel to each other.  “In reality, there will be one institution called marriage, and its meaning will be dramatically different.”

At-risk Youth

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The Honorable Reverend Dr. Ray Hammond of Boston

The Rev. Dr. Ray Hammond, who heads several organizations in Boston working with at-risk, inner-city black and Latino youth lamented America’s modern epidemic of family breakdown and said that from his personal experience he knows that the African-American community in particular has paid a heavy price for fatherlessness. 

He said, “After all, in vitually every society on the face of the earth, marriage is what makes fatherhood more than a biological event-by connecting men to the children they bring into the world.

“No group,” he said, “experiences family disintegration more profoundly than the young urban men and women I see, work and worship with.  Theirs is a topsy-turvey world where there is a growing number of households, struggling to make ends meet with parents, often single mothers, striving to hold themselves and their families together while they try to raise boys who will not become fodder on the killing fields they call urban streets and daughters who will not grow old before their time.”

The Rev. Dr. Hammond said, “Tragically, as bad as our current situation may be, it could soon become dramatically worse  because the courts in America are poised to erase the legal road map to marriage and the family from American law.”

What Are the Chances?

So what are the chances that the federal Defense of Marriage Act, and with it government support for traditional marriage at every level, will be undermined and thrown out by the courts unless a marriage amendment is put in place? Of the three attorneys who testified at the Senate hearing, two thought DOMA’s demise was not inevitable, but highly likely.

Farris said that in the course of litigation you have to help your client assess the risks they are about to assume.  Here’s the scenario that would challenge the Defense of Marriage Act.

He said, “If the Supreme Judicial Court of Massachusetts, the Supreme Court of New Jersey, or the supreme court of some sister state, rules that same-sex “marriages” are required under their respective state constitutions, then the stage is set. [Such a decision is pending in Massachusetts.]

“Couples who are married in the wake of one of these rulings will then seek to move or return to another state and have that marriage recognized.  If the second state wants to recognize that same-sex “marriage,” DOMA does not prevent such recognition.  However, if the second state refuses to recognize the out-of-state same-sex “marriage,” then the argument will be raised that the Full Faith and Credit Clause requires its recognition.  The state will then employ DOMA as part of its defense against such a constitutional challenge.”

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Senator Charles Schumer, D-New York

Will DOMA hold up under this challenge?  It is conceivable that it could, but if the strength of a legal trend could be compared to a river, Farris said, six months ago the appropriate metaphor would have been a small stream, now ‘it is a river raging with floodwaters, and not just any flood, but the hundred-year flood against which all future events will be judged.”

The challenges to the constitutionality of DOMA will focus on two tracks.  First same-sex “marriage” proponents will continue to push for the right to marry and second, couples with civil unions will continue to push to require states to give formal recognition to the status achieved in other jurisdictions.

What may work together for the homosexual “marriage” advocates are two Supreme Court decisions Romer v. Evans, settled in 1996, (when the legal trend was just a small stream) and Lawrence v. Texas, settled in 2003, (which created the floodwater).

In Romer, the voters of Colorado had enacted an initiative that limited the ability of citizens to obtain legal protections in civil rights laws on the basis of sexual orientation.  The Supreme Court struck down this law saying it violated the 14th Amendment’s Equal Protection clause. Coleman said, “It would be a relatively straightforward application of Romer for a Court to similarly find that DOMA and its state-law parallels violate equal protection.”

Open-ended Lawrence Case

Still it is the Supreme Court’s ruling in the Lawrence case, recently striking down the Texas sodomy law, which has sounded the alarums, not in the ruling alone, but in the court’s broad reasoning to explain itself.  Here the Justices noted that “the fact that the governing majority in a State has traditionally viewed a particular practice as immoral is not a sufficient reason for upholding a law prohibiting the practice.”

Translation:  the citizens’ sense of morality based on the long tradition and foundation philosophies of their society are not enough to prohibit a practice they find immoral.  Forget the moral judgment of the majority say the Justices.  It no longer applies in our decision-making.    

Coleman pointed out that “The right the petitioners sought to have recognized in Lawrence can be viewed from two perspectives:  first, as a privacy interest that protects sexual conduct between consenting adults in a home; or, second as a liberty interest that requires a broader societal recognition of the relationship itself (and perhaps legal recognition, too.)

“The Court could have decided the case on the narrower privacy grounds, but it expressly declined to do so,” said Coleman.  It went for a broader, more open-ended definition of liberty and freedom.  The Court ruled, “When sexuality finds overt expression in intimate conduct with another person, the conduct can be but one element in a personal bond that is more enduring.  The liberty protected by the Constitution allows homosexual persons the right to make this choice.”

What offended the Justices about the Texas sodomy statute was not just its prohibition of certain sexual conduct, but its “control” of a “personal relationship.”  Nearly in the same breath, the Court also reminded that “our laws and tradition afford constitutional protection to personal decisions relating to marriage, procreation, contraception, family relationships, child bearing and education.”

Given this sentiment, Coleman said, “It is my professional opinion that, in the absence of some intervening event, the Supreme Court’s evolving standards of liberty and privacy will result in constitutional protection for same-sex marriages within the next five to fifteen years.”

That is unless something is done about it.

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